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Ellen Neufeld's avatar

You spoke right to me. It’s wonderful to feel seen ♥️

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Alona,

I loved your article about how to manage real life 'on the court' situations with Grace and empathy!

Below, I'm sharing a poem about perfectionism called Perfect Peter Piper.

I have 20 of these Dr Seuss rhyming-style poems about life challenges... that I'm compiling into a book.

I'd love to share more with you and Matt and the girls ...I think you'd like them!

Best and warmest blessings for your adventures ahead,

Tera

Tera Gardner, CLC, NVC San Diego trainer and coach

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Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers.. PERFECTLY!

Every pepper that Peter Piper picked was PERFECT for pickling.

This is what Peter Piper preferred

because he wanted it to be perfect

to please his parents.

So,

He picked and he pickled

and he picked and he pickled

and then

he packed and packaged,

of course, PERFECTLY.

And, This is now what Peter Piper preferred.

Each pepper picked precisely more perfect than the last because he always wanted it to be perfect,

to please his parents;

perfectly perfect for his parents!

Because

This is what Peter Piper's parents preferred!

And Peter perfected plenty...practically perfecting perfection.

One day, a bit perplexed,

Peter pondered,

"Perhaps, just perhaps,

peppers, pickling, packing

& packaging perfectly

was

potentially... PREPOSTEROUS!"

Perhaps, plentiful possibilities were passing him by.

Perhaps people, pleasant people, would be pleased,

even if

peppers were not perfect;

pristinely picked, and packaged perfectly.

Perhaps, imperfectly picked, pickled packed and packaged peppers could still be palatable.

...perhaps peppers COULD be

Imperfectly Perfect

or

Perfectly Imperfect ...

Perhaps?

Peter pondered plenty!

Perhaps, Peter even pondered,

he'd possibly be a piece more peaceful

if ..

he didn't have to perpetually

....BE PERFECT!

He dared one day to follow his friend Little Jack's advice;

Stuck out his thumb & pulled out a PERFECTLY IMPERFECT PEPPER,

(not a plum)

and then ..

another and another....

and

Importantly... Peter Piper,

perfectly pleased, pronounced,

Well,

"What a little piece

more . ..

Peaceful

Peter Piper

am I!"

🕊🕊🕊🕊

The gift of imperfection

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